It's two hours before your session.

Your spouse walks into the room to see garments being flung onto the floor.

You whip your head out of the closet, frazzled, you utter "What am I going to wear!?"



We've all been there. I've gotten messages mere hours prior to a session where clients still don't know what to wear. It's a big decision! I get it. So, I'm here to help. Below you'll read what I recommend. I'll offer examples, as well as examples of what not to wear, and recommendations for mom, dad, kids and everyone in between.

Two people walk hand in hand along a beach by the ocean waves in a romantic black and white photograph.

So what do I recommend wearing?

 

Neutrals.


Neutrals, neutrals, neutrals. Some base colors could be black, white, gray, beige, taupe, and tan. These are a good place to start and then adding in some muted tones such as chocolate, dreamy pink, olive green, mustard yellow, or navy. Earth tones usually work the best.


"Why Neutrals?"


There are a few reasons actually. My editing style works best with softer muted tones and colors. I tend to edit with a warmer and slightly moody style and wearing colors that are similar to that will help the images flow cohesively and look pleasing to the eyes.


Another reason is that when you frame the images and hang them up, they will match better with most decors. And if you decide to switch it up or if you move, your images will still look good with the design of your home.


But most importantly, the color cast in the reflection matters. If you wear bright saturated colors, there's a big chance that color will get reflected back onto you and anyone else in the photo. This makes editing more difficult and some times not editable.

 

Romantic moment shared between a couple embracing on a wooden boardwalk surrounded by Spanish moss and lush foliage.
Family lounging together on white blanket at outdoor picnic with baby and wildflower bouquet.
Romantic couple embracing in shallow tropical waters with palm trees and sunset sky in Hawaii.
Family portrait in warm golden light with pine trees in background as sun sets over grassy field.
A mother and child embrace while standing in a golden field during sunset, her flowing mauve dress catching the light.

Wear what flatters your body and makes you comfortable.


If you wear something that you're not comfortable in, it'll show. And not only in your body language but the whole experience might be clouded by how uneasy you feel.



Often times clients will come in a long flowy dress. I think this is the best all around option. They can be so fun and we can add movement to your shots that also makes for some hella magical shots.



I am all for positive body image. You are beautiful in your skin no matter what you wear. But you and only you knows what flatters your body the best. Want to wear a skin tight cocktail dress? Perfect. Jeans and tee shirt? Awesome.



Point is, make sure you're comfortable.

Coordinating Colors and Outfits

Three people walking together along a sandy beach at sunset with trees and a pier in the background.

Families


When it comes to the adults, I would recommend a more subtle approach. I would keep any patterns for the children and solid colors for the parents. You can have a bit of fun with the littles! Add accessories such as a bow tie or headband with whatever accent color you choose to add that pop of color. You can also add a bit of flare with a subtle pattern in the children's clothes.

Group of friends pose together on a sunlit nature path surrounded by tropical foliage and palm trees at golden hour.

Extended Families


Larger families can be so hard to coordinate. When it comes to getting everyone on board, I recommend starting everyone off with your base color, whether it be tan, white, beige, or black. And then picking an accent color such as light blue, navy, blush, olive green or mustard yellow. Add various shades and textures of each color to add dimensions between each member. This will help tell which arm is whose!

Two figures embrace in a golden field of tall grass during sunset with trees silhouetted in the background.

Couples


With couples, the same idea as families would apply. Start with a common base color and then add whatever color you'd like. Staying away from bold patterns or colors. Try to stick with softer or muted tones, such as olive green, or light blue. And my biggest advise would be don't be afraid to get fancy! Now is your chance to get dressed up or dolled up. Have an outfit that you never know when to wear it to? Now you can. Have fun with it!

 

Other tips

 

Remember...


  • Dress from head to toe. Make sure cowlicks are tamed and shoes are free of scuffs or marks. Make sure nails are clean.
  • If this is an engagement session and you choose to have hair and make up done, now is a perfect time to test out a potential hair stylist or make up artist!
  • Bring outfit options in case something just doesn't work. Especially for the littles who might find the one puddle in the whole area. Iykyk.
  • Dress accordingly. If were shooting at the beach, I will almost always ask clients to go barefoot (shoes just look weird on sand). If wearing heels, bring a change of shoes to walk in.

What to Avoid


  • Fluorescent colors
  • Large bold patterns
  • Heavily saturated colors
  • Baseball caps
  • Smart Watches (If you normally wear one, I'd suggest switching it out for a wrist watch)
  • Clothing with big bold wording
  • Dirty or scuffed/ripped sneakers